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Couple and sexual counselling


Signature of Josephine Heers

Online | In Person | Crete

Support in all matters of the heart

Individual and relationship counseling online or in person in Crete

These are the concerns that bring people to me.

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Couples counseling

Counseling for themes like stuck conflicts, acute challenges, or visions for the future

Couples come to me with questions like these: Why do we argue so much? Why do we not have a fulfilling sexual life? Why does it work in bed, but not in life? How do we handle a new challenge as a couple — now and in the future? And how do I tell my partner about my relationship outside our relationship, the so-called "affair"?

An unfulfilled wish for a child is also a concern I can support couples with — including all the pressure that often hums along beneath the surface.

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Intercultural couples counseling

Counseling specialized for couples with different roots and traditions

At the beginning, you fell in love with each other precisely because of your cultural differences — yet by now, they cause conflict with yourself and your partner. A completely normal phenomenon, and one that can be very stressful.

I see this often. And especially then, support from outside can be very helpful for you.

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Sexual counseling

Individual or couples counseling on themes of sexuality

In sexual counseling, we can talk through every question and every concern around sexuality — individually or as a couple.

For example: you would like to tell your partner about your desires but do not know how. Or you are wondering who you are when it comes to your sexual orientation. Or you are affected by symptoms that restrict your sexuality — such as erection difficulties, low desire, or vaginismus (among others).

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Couples counseling in the family phase

Support before or during highly intense, stressful family phases

No matter how long a couple stayed together before the family phase — the shift into family life can turn living together and sexuality into a "struggle of everyday life".

With me, you develop strategies for your new life together.

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Support through conflict and change

When relationships change — through affairs, openness, or polyamory

It is completely normal for our goals and attitudes to change over the course of life. That can affect our desires, or the way we shape our relationships. What sounds so simple can shake a couple relationship in everyday life.

This includes questions about whether opening the relationship fits you and your partner, an affair that has changed everything, or living together in a polyamorous constellation.

In the honest negotiation of such a process, counseling can be supportive — so that both, or all, perspectives are equally heard.

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AI and love

When closeness with AI brings up feelings or questions in your relationship

AI can respond attentively and be available at any time. That can create closeness and feelings — and sometimes questions about what this connection means for you and your relationship.

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How the counseling can take place

  • Online — via a video-based platform
  • In person in Crete — in rooms or in nature, by arrangement
  • Flexible — especially for couples with children, evening appointments are possible
  • By phone — if a video call is unwanted (for individuals)

Who this offer is for

  • All people aged 18 and over
  • Specialized for people living abroad who wish for counseling in German
  • For intercultural couples, counseling is also offered in English
  • For individuals, for couples, for polycules

Whether your concern fits here

That depends above all on how much you are suffering right now — on how heavy something truly feels to you.

Maybe you are telling yourself that you only want a first look at my offer. Or maybe the pressure is already so big that you feel or know: we — or I — are stuck in a stalemate. Nothing moves forward or back. And that for a long time now, more than six months. Perhaps you feel no distress, but you have questions about your sexuality.

Then feel free to reach out to me.

Prefer to book straight away?

You can book online sessions yourself — pick a free time and pay securely.

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Getting in touch

For organizational reasons, I do not offer appointment scheduling by phone. If you have questions, feel free to reach out in advance by email at contact@paarberatung-kreta.de.

You can request an appointment in the morning or in the evening.

I will get back to you as quickly as I can.

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